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Sex life in a rut?

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Many moons ago Barbra Streisand & Donna Summer sang… "It's raining, it's pouring, my lovelife is boring me to tears - after all these years….”

Well, unfortunately in long-term relationships, it is so easy to be stuck in a rut with your spouse or significant other and while this may be ‘comfortable’, it can make your sex life a little ordinary. However, by mixing it up and using these tips, you can revive that spark that first brought the two of you together. Here are a few pointers to ponder.

Sex Tip 1: Treat yourself

It is not possible to have great sex if you do not feel sexy. So splash out and treat yourself to a new aftershave or some new lingerie, whatever is needed to put a spring back into your step.

Sex Tip 2: Flirt with each other

Send your partner playful, sexy messages throughout the day. Build up the anticipation by telling him what you are wearing and what you’d like him to do later.

Sex Tip 3: In the mood

Do not undervalue the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and does not have toys, laundry or paperwork littering it.

Sex Tip 4: Just kiss

Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstention from sex has the added benefit of charging you both up.

Sex Tip 5: Surprise!

Do not wear any underwear and let him/her find out.

Sex Tip 6: Watch a sexy film together

It does not have to be porn for it to be sexy. Some great movies are Nine and a Half Weeks, Body Heat and Last Tango in Paris.

Sex Tip 7: Buy a new toy

Nothing spices up a dull sex life like a new adult toy. Begin your search at sites like LoveTheMagicWand.com where you’ll find the best Hitachi Magic Massager articles, information, raves and reviews and links to the stores that stock them. Shopping together online for something sexy and the anticipation of your package’s arrival will create a new ‘buzz’ in your bedroom.

Sex Tip 8: Discover a new position!

Visit Google – type in ’sex position’ then click on ‘Images’ – I guarantee you that something will catch your eye – enough said!

Sex Tip 9: Fantasy Island

A little role-playing can be fun and do not limit yourselves to the bedroom. Start having fun before you even get home – meet at a restaurant or bar and pretend you just met.

Sex Tip 10: Get out of the bedroom

Sometimes a change of locale is all that’s needed to spice up the action. Try having sex somewhere out of the ordinary; in your spa or swimming pool late at night, in the back of the car… just be careful – because you don’t want to be caught!

If any of the ideas makes you feel jittery – then that is the one ‘adventure’ you ought to try first! The great part of being with someone for an extended period is that you can fully trust and feel safe with him or her, so do not hesitate to try something out of your normal comfort zone, especially when you know it is going to spice your sex life right up!

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Get Your Ex Back – Be Sneaky – Be Devious – Be Downright Dirty

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009

If you want to get ur ex back you may have to play a little dirty. Any tactics are good tactics in my book. When I was dumped I would have gone to almost any lengths to get my ex back. Will You?

What are these sneaky tactics I’m speaking of? You could stalk, kidnap or even blackmail your ex. All very underhand and none of them should even enter your head.

We are talking about psychological manipulation. The manipulation part is very subtle though, nothing serious. We certainly won’t be crossing the line with these mind games.

Human beings react and respond to the same sort of triggers. It’s these emotional factors we are going to be using to help get you back with your ex. Used right, these tactics could help you get your lover back easily and quickly.

Here’s a quick example of psychological tactics. A good friend, albeit a lazy friend won’t go to the gym with you. You hit them with the line …”well if you feel your body isn’t up to the task”.

Before you know it pride has kicked in and they are grabbing some gym kit. You are using reverse psychology on them to get them to do what you want. These are the same tactics you can use to easily get your ex back.

A great example is the employee of the month competition This is a psychological trick used by employers to get a little bit extra from the workforce. The prize is generally some worthless accolade like a plaque. A great example of psychological manipulation.

The question you got to ask yourself now, is how badly do you want to get your ex back? Will you do nothing and let them disappear from your life forever? This is usually what happens when you don’t or can’t do anything to stop it.

Or do you get down & dirty, get yourself a handful of psychological tactics to get your ex back and live happy ever after. The tools you need are at this website….

MakeupNotBreakup.com

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Get Your Ex Back – Then Get Revenge By Dumping Them

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009

Let’s not beat around the bush. You’ve got an axe to grind and want revenge. What better way to get revenge than to get your ex back, then dump them from a great height. I don’t need to know the details of why you seek revenge, I’m just gonna try to show you how I’d do it.

They have probably hurt you badly, otherwise why are you here? That fact will make this type of payback all the more powerful. They think they are forgiven with a second chance. Only to have the tables turned on them.

To pull this off you need to get your ex back first, but how do you do that? There’s a chance they might even want to get back with you without you even having to try. This would be the ideal situation. You may have to do some work if they aren’t begging to come back.

What does it entail? Getting them back. You got two choices here. Just go for it and do all the work yourself. Or you use a system that has been used successfully many times before.

You can get an off the shelf system that is like a blueprint to get back together. This is probably a better option as you want to get the job done as quick & easy as possible. With a system like this you’ll either be in the driving seat within weeks, or you’ll realise it aint gonna happen and you’ll have to resort to some other nefarious means.

So, the plan is this. Win them back first. Get them all warm and cosy again. Then BANG! You dump them, explaining that this was the plan all along. Give them a taste of their own medicine.

Doing it this way gets you a double result. It gives you the satisfaction you seek. And it makes them doubly heartbroken knowing you have been hard enough to plan it all along.

So, do you go it alone and try to win them back with your own skills. Good luck with the time that will take.

Or do you make the smart move and get yourself a proven system to get your ex back. Then you can serve your revenge up cold. The kit you need is here, at this site…

MakeupNotBreakup.com

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Get Your Ex Back – Do It Yourself Or Professional Help?

Monday, October 5th, 2009

Heartache too much? Looking to get your ex back? You can tackle the job on your own, or choose to go with a “system”. You probably want to know what your chances are with both methods. I’ll do my best to give you an idea.

Go for it…alone that is

Hmm, don’t really know what I can say about trying it all by yourself. I reckon the best I can do is to say good luck with it.

In all seriousness, if you had the skills to put this situation right. Chances are you’d be smart enough to not be in this hole. But there’s no reason you shouldn’t give it a go by yourself.

How do you think you’d tackle this problem? I’m no expert but I can’t see how I would approach my ex if we had a bust up. There’s a good chance your ex wants to see nothing of you for a long time, if ever.

Chances of getting back together with your own half baked plan? Very slim.

Using a “system”

What do you mean by a “system”? Well, you can get a step by step “system” written by an expert in the field. You gotta be kidding me right?

Well, one of them has testimonials from over 6,000 couples (yes, six thousand) that claim to have used the system to get back together. I reckon faking those numbers would be nigh on impossible. But, you just never know!

How does the system work? You get instructions for everything, from getting your head together because of the split. Right through to getting your ex back and more.

You learn how to safely get in contact with your ex again but with a slight quirk to it. It shows you how to manipulate the situation so that your ex calls you, not you calling them. It gives you plenty of little psychological tactics to stack the deck in your favour.

It will hold your hand, so to speak, while you go through all the motions of winning your ex back. From how to handle phone calls for maximum effect. To easily getting your ex out on a date with you again.

I suppose once you have your ex out on a date again you’ve about cracked the case there. You can now decide to try to win your ex back on your own, good luck with that.

Or take the easier route and get yourself a step by step system to get your ex back. You’re welcome to check out a review of the top couple of systems at my website…

MakeupNotBreakup.com

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How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics

Sunday, October 4th, 2009

Maybe you’ve recently split up and you want her back. If you’re wanting to learn how to win her back then my advice is take control with psychological tactics. Some would say using these tactics is borderline immoral. Their opinions don’t count when it comes to getting her back.

You don’t actively notice it but psychological mind games are in use every day. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.

Sneakily get her to return your call
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! So you send her a letter telling her how good things are for you right now. And you also say you want to thank her.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She’s curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you’ve thanked her. We all love being thanked. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.

The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. And some other tricks like this.

Use her favourite memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. Favourite songs, foods, smells. They all work as good as each other.

Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Her subconscious will transfer some of her love for the song back to you.

Curious jealousy
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.

As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.

Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…

MakeupNotBreakup.com

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